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<p>The goal is to share a story or examples of ways you have learned
to thrive with the topic. Stating the negative example but
showing how to change it - something you learned - a way to
communicate perhaps, or something someone else experienced and
learned. Any of that is good. Talk time should be less then 3
minutes. Thanks<br>
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Annie, is like to take #2, about cultural norms of gender roles. I
still have lots of questions about how these little talks are
focused—positive experiences or negative examples, how long is
each one, totally personal examples, etc?
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<p>Here's the basic outline of topics of ways to thrive (for
National Domestic Violence month) that we will use for the
Oct. 30th UU service. The education one is taken. Please
pick a topic to share a personal story about (2 min. or
less) and let me know which one speaks to you. Don't
worry about following a format based on my comments on the
page. This is an outline from a talk I've given a few
times. Jane and I are working on creating a banner that
we can either hang in the sanctuary or downstairs for
anyone to draw/write on showing ways that they thrive. I
look forward to hearing from you. Annie<br>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">12 Steps to Thriving by Annie
Warmke</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><font size="3">During the
coffee time a thriving banner will be created by people
attending with a long sheet of packaging paper and
markers so that it can be shared to create affirmations
for flourishing, healing and success at thriving.</font></p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">1: Face Your Fears: Culture
promotes fear as control. Take that first step. It isn't
the Grand Canyon.</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">2: Accept that your culture's
version of being a man or a woman is a lie – tightly held
cultural norms about who women and men are unhealthy.</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">3: Learn to love me - Maybe
the hardest – change self-talk. We talk to ourselves at
15,000 words a minute so that means negative self-talk is
powerful – how to change it. </p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">4. Develop a simple practice
of meditation - take time for your needs and lower stress
levels.</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">5: Expand my experiences – by
investing in others – take a course, help out at something
you want to learn</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">6: Meet others 50% of the way
– invest in others but wisely –
friendships/mentoring/peers</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">7: Learn to ask for what I
need – sometimes I need to know what others think. It's
what helps me to be successful in my work. I also need to
feel nourished. There's nothing wrong with asking if you
did a good job, or what people think of your work, or
decisions or goals. It's all in how you ask, and who you
ask.</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">8: Have a plan for my life –
don't be Christopher Columbus</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">9: Love doesn't conquer all –
I can love someone or something but not subject myself.
Don't dirty fight – own my thoughts and feelings, use more
emotions then anger/sadness, say things in a way that the
other person can listen to me</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">10: Speak the truth – others
speak of their bigotry, racism, hate – don't let it in.
Decide ahead of time what to say.</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">11: Expect the males in your
life to speak up to other men against sexism and racism.</p>
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<p style="margin-bottom: 0in">12: Boldly walk only on my
path – I can't give away something I don't have, boldness,
confidence, etc. and I can't help by always taking on the
role of the rescuer. Thriving takes lots of work and
constant vigil.</p>
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<pre class="moz-quote-pre" wrap="">Hi Annie. I have tried and can’t find your initial email that had lists of topics. Please send to me again. I’m in Israel and listening to everyone around talking about the election here which will be Tuesday. Netanyahu loses and goes to prison. Netanyahu wins and stays prime minister. About equal in all categories as our fearful leader. Only difference is Netanyahu is smart.
So it’s like being in any place in USA and listening to talk about trump. Ok
Enuf rambling. Thank you. I’ll appreciate a copy. Lori
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On Sep 8, 2019, at 10:57 PM, Annie Warmke <a class="moz-txt-link-rfc2396E" href="mailto:annie@bluerockstation.com" moz-do-not-send="true"><annie@bluerockstation.com></a> wrote:
Fantastic! What topic did you want to pick. The only one taken is one on learning/education. Annie
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<pre class="moz-quote-pre" wrap="">On 9/6/2019 11:33 AM, lori fahn wrote:
I will be in Israel sept 8-22. I want to volunteer for any part of this. I can take a topic to discuss. I can help with any part that you are assigning. Anyway, just a note to let you know I will be gone when you have organizational meeting. But I am volunteering. Please keep me posted
Thank you
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On Sep 5, 2019, at 2:48 PM, Annie Warmke via Women <a class="moz-txt-link-rfc2396E" href="mailto:women@fuusm.org" moz-do-not-send="true"><women@fuusm.org></a> wrote:
At the last women's dinner we discussed putting something together for the Oct. 13th. I've attached the 12 ways to thrive piece we can use as our guide. I think we will want to have a brief meeting before or after one of the upcoming services to walk through how things would work that day. One or two women will take one of the 12 topics outlined and tell a story about the topic...one or two minutes long. We need to decide some music perhaps and what else we might do. I was thinking we might have some large sheets of paper at the coffee time so anyone can write on them listing other ways to thrive. I await your eager participation. Annie
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Farmer, activist, consultant, writer
Blue Rock Station/Warmke Farm LLC
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Podcasts: <a href="http://bluerockstation.com" moz-do-not-send="true">bluerockstation.com</a>
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Annie Warmke
Farmer, activist, consultant, writer
Blue Rock Station/Warmke Farm LLC
<a class="moz-txt-link-abbreviated" href="http://www.bluerockstation.com">www.bluerockstation.com</a>
(740) 674-4300 or (740) 252-6295 Mobile
Radio: When the Biomass Hits the Wind Turbine
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Publications:
The Business of Goat Herding (BRS Media)
The Journey Toward Nothing (BRS Media)
Naturally Healthy Goats (BRS Media)
Podcasts: bluerockstation.com
When the Biomass Hits the Wind Turbine
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