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    <p>I wonder how much "too much harm and damage" they accept and how
      they measure that.  It's my understanding (unless I misunderstood)
      that they do charge for mediation assistance.  When I spoke to
      Beth Casebolt she was very clear that the cost is extensive and
      that it takes a lot of time for the process.  Annie<br>
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    <div class="moz-cite-prefix">On 9/15/2023 1:36 PM, Andrea Bone via
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      <div dir="ltr">Beth Casebolt's response is interesting,
        specifically the reference to harm and damage.</div>
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        <div dir="ltr" class="gmail_attr">On Fri, Sep 15, 2023 at
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            <div>Thanks, Karen</div>
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            <div>If the UUA does agree to some mediation with us, will
              they be charging us anything for this service?</div>
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                  <div dir="ltr">George & Gwen Banziger;
                    740-434-5685; 740-434-3354 (mobile)<br>
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            <div dir="ltr" class="gmail_attr">On Fri, Sep 15, 2023 at
              12:59 PM Karen Binkley via Fuusm-l <<a
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              rgb(204,204,204);padding-left:1ex">At the monthly FUUSM
              Board meeting on Monday, September 11, 2023, the Board
              discussed the recommendation from the September “Dialogue
              Session”.  After considerable discussion, the Board
              determined that Karen Binkley, Board president, should
              contact Beth Casebolt to request mediation from the UUA.
              The Board also determined that we were interested in
              employing the UUA’s “Hope for Us” option to help us deal
              with our concerns.  On a phone call with Beth Casebolt,
              she stated that all parties must agree  before starting
              the mediation process. The UUA  must first determine
              whether this situation is “solvable” and that not too much
              “harm and damage” has already occurred.  <br>
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